Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette

Love Doctor

In 1950, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg discovered a mysterious female pleasure spot hidden within the vagina. It turned out that stimulation of the G-spot produced a very powerful kind of female orgasm also known as “squirting” or female ejaculation in some women research confirmed.

The G-spot or urethral sponge is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front of the vaginal wall. According to research, the bean-shaped, fleshy tissue of the paraurethal gland is only about the size of a quarter. Because it’s composed of erectile tissue, it tends to get swollen like a balloon filled with blood.

According to medical experts, most men can climax without a problem; however, women aren’t wired that way. A recent survey conducted by medical experts found that 47 % of women climaxed for the first time through masturbation, 32% through sexual intercourse, 20% through petting and 1% while sleeping. The same survey found that the common age of first orgasm was 18, but that it could also be as late as the 40s, but new research discovered that any woman can climax and that the ability to have multiple orgasms increased with age.

Most men don’t realize that the actual “orgasm zone” is the top inside wall of the vagina. This is where the G- spot, the deep spot, and all other “erogenous”zones are located. In women, orgasm can be achieved during vaginal sexual intercourse or clitoral stimulation; however, another study found that the vast majority of women required clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. The clitoris is the focus of pleasure for most women and it’s usually the area that when stimulated with the tip of the tongue or fingers can lead to a higher level of ecstasy.

Are there any sexual positions better than others to make a woman orgasm quicker? According to research, when performed properly, the missionary position can be one of the most powerful ways to establish a deep connection with your partner. And yet, research has proven time and time again that by far the most popular sex position is woman on top; however, a lot of men don’t do it much even though they have fantasized so much about women being on top.  After doing some research, this is what I found. I’m quoting exactly from an article that I read online.

The answer, from couples who have tried it, seems to be a resounding “yes”.

Woman on top positions for lovemaking are great when a man can actually let himself go, when he can relinquish his need for control, when he can literally just lie back and enjoy it. It’s true a lot of men have problems with giving up control.  It makes them feel vulnerable, and since men feel powerful when they are doing things (like giving a woman an orgasm), it’s easy to see why a lot of men have difficulty with a woman being on top.

The woman on top position can be a wonderful experience for women because it’s an opportunity for her to experience the power of her own sexuality. Her orgasm can be achieved in this position perhaps more easily than any other. 

Another great advantage of woman on top is that the woman can move off the man’s penis to position her vulva over his mouth. If  she’s already aroused, then rock back and forth and ride ‘im cowgirl!

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Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida. She was born and raised in Miami. She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program. She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism.

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