What’s Not To Like About A Vibrator? by The Love Doctor

February 17, 2012 — pittsburghflashfictiongazette

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According to research, vibrators are a woman’s favorite sex toy. These battery-operated devices have been around since the late 1800’s and by the 1900’s were sold as “Mother’s Little Helper” to help “hysteria” and to help put a “flush” in the cheeks. By the mid 1920’s the vibrators’ true purpose was discovered when they appeared in “stag” films and suddenly became taboo and shameful. This taboo remained in place until the sexual revolution of the 1960’s.

 
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O, Holistic Wisdom.com Founder, says “That couples who use sex toys alone and together in relationships tend to have a strong level of open communication, trust and unconditional love for their partners.”
 
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Research indicates that only 30 percent of women achieve orgasm through sexual intercourse. Vibrators may be recommended by sex therapists to women who have difficulty achieving an orgasm through masturbation, oral sex and/ or intercourse. “If you need a vibrator in order to have an orgasm, then bring your vibrator into the bedroom and use it with your partner,” says  Ian Kerner, Ph.D and best-selling author of, “She Comes First”. She says that relying on your vibrator alone could be a “mental predisposition” more than anything else so the mere presence of your vibrator can help assure you that you will have an orgasm, let you stay more relaxed and allow you to really get into your romp. As time goes on, you can use it less and less as you mentally make the shift from only being able to have orgasms while alone with your vibrator, to being able to have orgasms while having sex with a partner.

 
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According to research, sex toys can enhance sexual performance. For instance, using a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris when a man is performing oral sex can often bring a woman to levels of ecstasy and pleasure she has never experienced before. There are some men that may reach orgasm before their partner and as a result, are unable to continue with using their erect penis to pleasure her. Sex toys allow him to stimulate her quickly before he climaxes so this way she will feel satisfied. Sex toys make a great substitute partner for periods when one is in between sexual relationships or separated from each other for long periods of time.

 
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Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida. She was born and raised in Miami. She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program. She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism.
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Do Men Enjoy Sucking On Women’s Milk-Filled Breasts? by The Love Doctor

January 25, 2012 — pittsburghflashfictiongazette

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For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked can produce an orgasm. “I absolutely love for my man to suck, lick, tease and gently bite my nipples,” says Lisa, 22, a freshman at Columbia University.
 
She adds, “Interestingly enough, when my man is stressed or just needing to feel comforted or loved, he enjoys sucking my breasts as if he’s nursing. This is a huge bonding experience for us both, and I really enjoy it.”
 
“I love it when my man makes circles around my breasts with his finger or tongue.  When he’s eating me out, I pinch and rub my own nipples,” says Donna, 23, a sophomore at Yale University.  “I also love it when he sucks on my nipples as if he’s nursing.  I can cum from nipple or clitoral stimulation.  It just takes longer with nipple stimulation.”
 
A woman with 34 B size breasts says that her jet black nipples are huge and always look erect. She says that she has been embarrassed by them most of her life and used to hide them under loose-fitting clothing and tight bras. “I have gotten into non-piercing nipple jewelry, which looks very classy,” she says.
 
“My breasts were so sensitive that it used to drive me crazy,” she says.  “I would climax several times a day merely from fabric rubbing across them.  I remained wet and sexually aroused for long periods of time without being able to get much work done.  I’m lucky that my husband loves nipples and that they’re part of our lovemaking.”
 
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Another woman claims that she loves having her breasts sucked. She also likes to show them off. “ I love to perform oral sex on him and then let  him suck the hell out of my breasts,” she says.  “My favorite part of foreplay activity is running my hard nipples down my partner’s back and buttocks.” 

Here’s what another woman has to say about getting her breasts sucked.  “I also have to be another voice for the fantasy of a woman playing with my breasts.  I definitely want to find a lady that is willing to let me play tirelessly with her breasts: in my face, licking, sucking, rubbing and enjoying them.” She says that she is straight, but that she finds images of women’s breasts hot.
 
Men are very attracted to breasts because of the firmness, shape and size. Breasts are not only meant for nursing, but for stimulation and arousal of sexual feelings in both men and women. As part of the foreplay, most men enjoy gliding their tongues over a woman’s nipples and placing them in their mouths while sucking and nibbling on them. Some men love to cup a woman’s breast while pinching the other one with their thumb and index finger; whereas, other men enjoy sucking on a woman’s breasts- milk or no milk, and not only sucking, but salivating on them and massaging them with their saliva.
 
“I’m a 35-year-old bachelor and my greatest weakness is a woman with big lactating breasts.  I enjoy playing and sucking on breast milk as a tool for foreplay.  Sometimes I bathe my erection with breast milk before and after sex, if the woman is lactating,” states Shahil of Delhi, India.
 
“When I was breast feeding and my husband and I would have sex, he would suck on them some times and not mind the milk because it was so sweet but he wouldn’t do it just for the milk,” states Briana, location hidden.
 
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 Bio: The Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida.  She was born and raised in Miami.  She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program.  She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism. 
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Pantyhose Erotic by The Love Doctor

January 14, 2012 — pittsburghflashfictiongazette

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Pantyhose are silky and generally make legs look sexier in heels. The thin fabric gives the legs a more polished and smooth look. Because men are visual creatures by nature, they often fantasize about sexy vixen women with big perky boobs in black fishnet thigh-high stockings with lace tops. Simply admiring a topless woman’s female genitalia as well as the exposed buttocks can cause a man to feel sexually aroused. As with any other fetishes, there’s a correlation between pantyhose fetish and that of a school girl with knee-high stockings and mini-skirt sitting on her professor’s lap. The image of the naughty nurse in a girdle and thong pulling down her pantyhose while her gyno examines her is a mild form of voyeurism research indicates.

 
According to Wikipedia, the pantyhose covered foot can be extremely arousing to men who often find satisfaction in just looking at or more in that of rubbing, sucking, licking and massage of the penis with the very popular foot fetishism. Many 21st century men fetishistic preferences include sniffing and
sucking on a woman’s toes. The pleasure and anticipation associated once the garment is slowly pulled down the legs is a huge turn-on. For some men, covering a woman in pantyhose in semen is an erotic fantasy.
 
On the other hand, a small number of women find pantyhose stimulating perhaps because of the nature of the garment, research indicates. Some women love to tease their man with their crotchless pantyhose right on the table. If your man has a foot fetish, then you can look at him as you rub your toes and soles on his manhood. How can any man not love the feel of nylon against their hands, face, tongue or back?
And while men do prefer pantyhose over bare legs, these days it’s all about being “ Au naturale,” or next to naked and hosiery seems to get in the way. For a lot of men, the idea of a woman wearing pantyhose is alluring. It shows a feeling of confidence, the willingness to get down and dirty.
 
 
Here’s what a guy from Michigan has to say about a woman in pantyhose.
 
“It’s very hard for me to take my hands off of them and I just can’t wait until the end of the day to have her in bed with me dragging my tongue or any part of my body up and down her silky smooth feet, ankles, legs, and butt. Did I say I love the look of nylons on a women? LOL !!!! Please don’t give up on this old fashion ladies.”
 
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Bio: The Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida.  She was born and raised in Miami.  She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program.  She has a Bachelor of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism.
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Women Who Watch Porn by The Love Doctor

January 1, 2012 — pittsburghflashfictiongazette

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One out of every three online buyers of porn are women, which means that there are millions of women in America viewing erotica on a regular basis. Oprah Winfrey.

 
“There is still a double-standard that the porn industry is all run by men, and not very good men,” said King, who is vice president of special projects at major adult film company Wicked Pictures. Ian Kerner, a sex therapist and New York Times best-selling author says that more women are using porn to get themselves in the mood for sex or to enjoy their sexuality on their own. “There are women who crave for some voyeuristic pleasure in the bedroom, so they’re using porn as a marital aid,” said Stormy Daniel, an American porn-actress and screen producer. In addition, women place a high importance on feeling wanted and desired. Men, on the other hand, are visual creatures and don’t need to feel desired at all in order to feel aroused research indicates. Secondly, women use porn to learn new sexual techniques and how to apply them in the bedroom. In “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” released on May, 2011, neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam said that the female sexual brain is like a detective agency.
 
“A woman wants to know there’s going to be repeated action, that he’s committed and is going to be coming back for more.”
 
In other words, women are interested in seeing female characters with average looks rather than some bimbo with blonde bleached hair and fake boobs. Women who watch porn do so because they’re interested in the storyline behind the characters and the romantic aspects of their relationship. Most women crave love and want to feel desired by their partners. While men are only interested in the physical aspects of the sex act, women tend to place a higher priority on all the senses as a whole. As a result, they can become highly aroused by images of couples engaging in intimacy, sexual passion and desire. For some women, watching porn can be an erotic experience because it allows them to become familiar with their own sexual responses. On the other hand, watching porn together as a couple can strengthen your marriage bonds because it triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine that train your body to remember what it felt like the first time you made passionate love. And while there are women who find porn offensive, there are others who enjoy watching the action and picturing themselves in the scene.
 
A man from Canada shares his story.
 
“I had a blast Saturday night! I was with a woman this past weekend who I had been seeing on and off for several months now. I cooked her dinner.”  Around 11pm, she told him she was in the mood to watch porn. She went into the amateur couple category and shared some of her fantasies with him. For some women, watching someone get turned on is a huge turn-on.
 
A woman in Kansas shares her story with the rest of the world.

“My man travels several days a week so I do watch porn by myself. It does keep my sanity and no one wants to kill me for being too bitchy.” 

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The Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida.  She was born and raised in Miami.  She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program.  She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast Journalism.

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Recovering From Sexual Addiction And Dependency by The Love Doctor

December 22, 2011 — pittsburghflashfictiongazette

Do you know anyone who is suffering from a sexual addiction? If so, Sex Addicts Anonymous can help. Sex Addicts Anonymous is an organization that offers hope to both men and women so they may overcome and recover from their sexual addiction and dependency. For most sex addicts, recovery from this addiction is possible only after they have accepted that they are powerless over their sexual behavior and incapable of changing. By applying the twelve steps of Sex Addicts Anonymous, they are able to abstain both from the obsessive mental preoccupation with sex and compulsive sexual behavior.

This twelve step program offers a spiritual solution to the sex addict through the belief in God or a higher power. Not only do they provide basic principles for living, but within time these principles will become integrated into the addicts thoughts, feelings and behavior. After the sex addict admits that he is powerless over his sexual behavior, then the addict makes a decision to turn his problem over to God or a greater power that can help him deal with his shortcomings. Through daily prayer and meditation, many sex addicts had a spiritual awakening as the result of consistently practicing these principles in their daily lives.

Just as the steps teach us the spiritual principles necessary for healthy individual recovery, the traditions embody the spiritual principles necessary for the healthy functioning of our groups. Sex Addicts Anonymous group meets regularly for the purpose of recovering from their addictive sexual behavior. At the meetings, the members get the opportunity to read Sex Addict Anonymous literature and share their experience, strength and hope with each other. If you know anyone who is suffering from a sexual addiction, there is HOPE. You’re not alone!

Can A Marriage Survive Sex Addiction?

According to Dr. Drew Pinsky, Sex Addiction Specialist, yes, a marriage can survive sex addiction if both members are committed. In fact, sometimes there has to be a period of separation in order for the couple to miss each other and test their love.

Porn is a sexual addiction where one’s own desires are more important than anything else. For most guys, it is hard to connect emotionally and this is what happened in Jonathan’s case. For a lot of guys, sex is a way of connecting too because they might be too scared to get close to anyone.

When sex addicts join rehab, they must sign a celibacy contract. “No porn, no toys and no touching not even yourself.” No sex period.

During this time, cameras follow them and record them. “When you have an orgasm and you have that feeling, it’s in your brain. So when you no longer have this release, it feels weird,” said Phil.

Statistics confirm that approximately 16,000 people in this world suffer from some type of sex addiction while 90%of the sex addicts suffer from some type of trauma. In addition, one out of three women are using Internet pornography.

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The Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida. She was born and raised in Miami. She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program. She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism.

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