The Love Doctor
One out of every three online buyers of porn are women, which means that there are millions of women in America viewing erotica on a regular basis. Oprah Winfrey.
“There is still a double-standard that the porn industry is all run by men, and not very good men,” said King, who is vice president of special projects at major adult film company Wicked Pictures. Ian Kerner, a sex therapist and New York Times best-selling author says that more women are using porn to get themselves in the mood for sex or to enjoy their sexuality on their own. “There are women who crave for some voyeuristic pleasure in the bedroom, so they’re using porn as a marital aid,” said Stormy Daniel, an American porn-actress and screen producer. In addition, women place a high importance on feeling wanted and desired. Men, on the other hand, are visual creatures and don’t need to feel desired at all in order to feel aroused research indicates. Secondly, women use porn to learn new sexual techniques and how to apply them in the bedroom. In “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” released on May, 2011, neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam said that the female sexual brain is like a detective agency.
“A woman wants to know there’s going to be repeated action, that he’s committed and is going to be coming back for more.”
In other words, women are interested in seeing female characters with average looks rather than some bimbo with blonde bleached hair and fake boobs. Women who watch porn do so because they’re interested in the storyline behind the characters and the romantic aspects of their relationship. Most women crave love and want to feel desired by their partners. While men are only interested in the physical aspects of the sex act, women tend to place a higher priority on all the senses as a whole. As a result, they can become highly aroused by images of couples engaging in intimacy, sexual passion and desire. For some women, watching porn can be an erotic experience because it allows them to become familiar with their own sexual responses. On the other hand, watching porn together as a couple can strengthen your marriage bonds because it triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine that train your body to remember what it felt like the first time you made passionate love. And while there are women who find porn offensive, there are others who enjoy watching the action and picturing themselves in the scene.
A man from Canada shares his story.
“I had a blast Saturday night! I was with a woman this past weekend who I had been seeing on and off for several months now. I cooked her dinner.” Around 11pm, she told him she was in the mood to watch porn. She went into the amateur couple category and shared some of her fantasies with him. For some women, watching someone get turned on is a huge turn-on.
A woman in Kansas shares her story with the rest of the world.
“My man travels several days a week so I do watch porn by myself. It does keep my sanity and no one wants to kill me for being too bitchy.”
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The Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida. She was born and raised in Miami. She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program. She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast Journalism.
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