Amateur Adult Video Actresses As Courageous Social Pioneers

An Amateur Enjoying Herself

It’s the Old Soldier here with another commentary on the adult entertainment industry.

Hello hello hello, fans of the Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette from all over the world.  It’s a lovely (high 69 and sunny) day in Pittsburgh this Friday.  The Old Soldier has karaoke to look forward to tonight at Del’s, but right now he wants to get some blogging in.  It’s around 10:00 am.

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An Amateur Enjoying Herself

In order to cut down on my expenses, I temporarily dropped my subscription to the one adult video site that I subscribe to; but only temporarily.  I hope to re-subscribe in July of this year.  That does not mean the Old Soldier has not been thinking about porn as entertainment and art.

The fact that tens of millions of American men and women buy and watch adult videos means that porn is definitely entertainment.  And the fact that it brings in more billions of dollars in revenue each year than the music and movie industries combined means that porn is definitely an industry, too.  These facts are part of the public record.

An Amateur Enjoying Herself

Whether or not the best porn is art is still being debated.

The Old Soldier is not naive.  He knows that there is a dark and frightening side to porn; but the site that I subscribe to fascinates me for a couple of reasons: the women are amateurs and most of the time it is obvious that the women have a good time.  Not all of them, but most of them.

It is also obvious that some of these women should not have agreed to be in an adult video.  I guess they really needed the money and porn was the only solution they could come up with.

Then there are the women, many of them young, attractive, educated and articulate, who are truly turned on by the act of being in an adult video and who even exalt in this act by an unihibited display of orgasmic pleasure that is truly breath-taking.

To the Old Soldier, these women are an inspiration.  Then add that most of these women will remain porn amateurs, doing a few adult videos, and then moving on with their lives, makes them even more fascinating.

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Boobs: Women Will Like This Down To Earth Story, Too…

The Old Soldier has a great flash fiction story for you from the archives.  Well, I think it’s great.  I wrote it.  Hey, the Old Soldier is not bashful.

Hello hello hello, everyone from all over the world!

The Old Soldier is in high spirits.  I did all of my morning requirements: breathing and stretching exercises, one post up before noon, eat breakfast and wash the dishes and at least 15 minutes of apartment cleaning.  When you are retired it’s easy to get lazy.  My morning requirements guarantee that I get something accomplished before noon.

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It’s around 4:00 in the afternoon on a mild (62), and what has turned out to be a sunny day in Pittsburgh.  Oh, this morning the Old Soldier also shaved his head in preparation for karaoke tomorrow night at Del’s.  That was another accomplishment.  Now tomorrow I only have to shave my face.  Got to clean up for the women, young and not so young.

I just came back from Del’s.  I had two beers then went across the street to the supermarket and got three turkey wings for my crock pot.  And since I did not spend any money yesterday, trying to stay within my budget, I picked up a six-pack of Pabst Blue Ribbon beer at a bar down the street from the supermarket.

Then sitting at the workstation in my apartment, with the turkey wings in the crock pot and sipping on a can of beer, I wondered if I could put up another post before the blogging day was over.  I came up with this story of mine from the archives.  This version, I think it’s the first version, was published on November 15, 2008.

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Boobs

It was a rainy March night in Pittsburgh. I sat with a female friend in a bar at a table at the big window that looked out on Forbes Avenue near the campus of the University of Pittsburgh. She and I had been drinking and now we were waiting for our wings, celery and blue cheese dressing, you know, to sober up a little before class. We were both in our early forties and worked steady jobs and we were taking the same night class at Pitt. It was Friday and we were prepared for class and neither of us had to get up early Saturday. So we could afford to get a little drunk. I was single but had my eye on a classmate I hoped to hookup with soon and my friend had been dating a new man several months now.

“Boobs,” my friend said. “What the hell is it with all you men about boobs?”

“What?”

“Don’t you know there’s more to a woman then just her breasts?”

Her breasts were large and for her age they looked pretty firm and still sat up relatively high. I said, “Lover boy working them over pretty good, huh?”

“I think I’m a cup size larger.”

“Well, maybe you’re just pregnant.”

She suddenly got quiet. I was just joking around. The waitress brought our wings.

“Everything all right here?” the waitress asked. I looked at my friend. She was staring out into the rainy night. A “Little Help From My Friends” by Joe Cocker was playing on the jukebox. There was a nice crowd, mainly undergrads, in the place.

“Two more beers,” I said. The waitress left. I said to my friend, “I was joking.”

She said, “I’m pregnant. He doesn’t know it yet.” She looked at me. “Now what do I do?”

“Stop drinking alcohol?”

“Smart ass. You know what I mean.”

“Yes, I know what you mean.”

The End

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Blogging: Behind The Scenes (May 4, 2012)

Spank my bare bottom and call me a nudist!  Hello hello hello, fans of the Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette from all over the world.  It’s going to be another hot day (high 78) in Pittsburgh with a possibility of scattered thunder showers.  Summer is not far away.

How’s everyone doing?

Today is Friday.  You know what that means.  Karaoke at Del’s tonight.  The Old Soldier already shaved his head yesterday and he will shave his face today.  Got to clean up for the women.

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Today, you will find a new story by a guest writer stuck to the front page.  It’s “Making A Sandwich” by Mike Young.  I sent Mr. Young his $10.00 publication fee this morning by PayPal.  And the story has nothing to do with sex.

Love Doctor

The Love Doctor has a new article on female sexology on the front page: “How Long Does A Woman’s Orgasm Last?”  Be sure to check it out.  And I’m waiting to get another article from the Love Doctor any day now. 

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Yesterday, the Old Soldier was watching the retro-television station.  I saw Richard Gere in American Gigolo and Molly Ringwald in Pretty in Pink.  I saw American Gigolo years ago but that was the first time I saw Pretty in Pink.

Pretty in Pink: don’t you just love those movies about a working-class girl finding true love with a rich boy?  I wonder how those marriages work out?  Probably like most marriages.  Not too good.

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Pretty in Pink (soundtrack)

Pretty in Pink (soundtrack) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Well, the Old Soldier doesn’t know how much more blogging he will get done today.  He still has to do his breathing and stretching exercises and do a little housekeeping.  I bought a can of stain remover for the carpet and it works pretty good.  I work on a little section of the carpet every day.

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Why Do So Many Women Love To Read This Sex Blog?

The celebration of female sexuality is at the editorial core of the Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette.

Hello, this is the Old Soldier, the editor/publisher of this magazine.  Readers will find this celebration expressed in the fiction, in the articles and commentaries and in the numerous images of the nude female body.

As the editor, publisher of PFFG, I know that many readers may think I go too far, that this constant drumbeat of female sexology is unnecessary. 

These critics are absolutely right.  It is unnecessary and maybe I do go too far; but I focus on female sexology because it fascinates me.  I want to celebrate female sexuality.  And this magazine is my invitation of community to everyone who feels the same way as I do about female sexuality.

I think when women explore the PFFG, they sense this community of celebration.  And that is why the majority of the readers of the PFFG are women.

Of course, the PFFG is about a lot more than just sex.  It’s really about life.  And my female readers sense that, too.

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An Amateur In An Adult Video

Hello hello hello, my brother and sister bloggers, readers, writers and my Flash Fiction Fanatics from all over the world: Europe, the Middle East, Asia, Africa, North and South America.

Right now in Pittsburgh, the sun is shinning but the high will only be 51 degrees.  The Old Soldier is not going to be able to finish his book on the Negro Baseball Leagues.  I have to take it back to the public library here in Oakland, the Carnegie Library of Pittsburgh, but I did learn a lot about an important part of baseball history here in the United States.

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Cover of "A Few Good Men (Special Edition...

Cover of A Few Good Men (Special Edition)

For the past few nights the retro-television station has been showing A Few Good Men starring Tom Cruise.  What a great movie.  I watched it twice a couple of nights ago.  The movie was full of great characterizations.

If you are a flash fiction writer, you can learn a lot from a good movie about characterization.  Just remember these three things about characterization.  There are three basic characters in any kind of fiction: movies, plays, short stories or novels.  There are flat, round and dynamic characters.

  • A flat character has no inner conflict or doubt and cannot change.
  • A round character does have inner conflict or doubt and has the capacity to change.
  • A dynamic character has inner conflict or doubt, has the capacity to change and does change.

This is the Old Soldier reporting from Pittsburgh around noon.  Keep reading and keep writing that flash fiction.

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Should Women Breastfeed In Public? by The Love Doctor

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According to an article published in ABC Good Morning America, in July 15, 2007, some women have claimed that there’s a time and place to breastfeed. The issue is whether a woman should breastfeed in public. Research confirmed that it’s a provocative topic for parents as well as for those without children.

 
In the state of Florida, women are allowed to breastfeed in public. Recently, I had dinner with a group of friends at P.F. Chang’s China Bistro Restaurant. My friends and I were shocked when a woman from across the table pulled out a big swollen, lactating breast in public and began to breastfeed her child. Suddenly, a man in a red waiter’s uniform arrived at her table and escorted her outside the restaurant. The woman pulled a blanket from the baby bag and put it over her breast and her child. She seemed annoyed. Again, should a woman breastfeed in public? While many people support a woman’s right to breastfeed in public, others feel that it’s not acceptable for a woman to breastfeed in a public place such as a restaurant, cafe, shop, municipal office or courtroom. While many people have supported a woman’s right to breastfeed in public, many women aren’t comfortable doing it publicly because they’re worried about what other people would do, say or think. Nevertheless, you could take a bottle of freshly pumped breast milk and exclusively bottle-feed your child in public, which is what my sister-in-law used to do after my nephew was born.
 
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According to US weekly, Beyonce was on the list of mothers who felt comfortable with public breastfeeding. On the other hand, there are women who have felt pressured by their husbands to stop. Other people have claimed that women should practice more tact when it comes to breastfeeding in public. Earlier today, I read a story about a woman who was at a pub and fed her son discreetly until a waitress came over to her table and told her that she couldn’t do that because it was obscene. After doing some research on this interesting topic, I found that there are women who have felt uncomfortable every time they are faced with a baby at a naked breast.

 
According to an article on Why Is Breastfeeding Such A Taboo?, published in 2009, of 1200 women who participated in an online poll, 60 percent felt that the UK didn’t approve of breastfeeding mothers. Two-thirds claimed that breastfeeding in public had been a stressful experience and more than half of these mothers had been asked to leave a restaurant, cafe or coffee shop as soon as they started to feed their child. Sixty-five percent of the new mothers said that they felt self-conscious about other people staring or laughing at them.
 
Research does confirm that breastfed babies are healthier than babies who are not breastfed.
 
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Love Doctor is a professional writer from the State of Florida. She was born and raised in Miami. She is a graduate of Florida International University School of Journalism and Mass Communication program. She has a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Broadcast journalism.

Gang Bang: The Awesome Power Of Female Sexuality

There is this one porn site (the only porn site) that the Old Soldier subscribes to.  The site shoots only amateurs.  The women have never done an adult video.  The women on this site might start out doing a hand job.  Then their next video might be a blow job.  The next video might be having sex with two men.  Then they might do a gang bang.

It’s the gang bang that fascinates the Old Soldier.  For one reason that I’m fascinated with the gang bang is that the women usually have several orgasms on camera.  That is not true of the other videos that they shoot for the site.  Can you imagine that?  A woman doing a porn video and not having an orgasm?

But in a gang bang the women usually have several orgasms.

Here’s the deal.  Some people will watch a porn video of a woman in a gang bang sucking dick and getting fucked and say that she is being used and abused.  She’s swallowing cum.  The guys cum on her face and on her butt and on her breasts.  They cum in her butt.  They cum in her vagina.

She’s being degraded.  Right?

But how many men can satisfy, oh let’s say ten women in one hour?  A woman can satisfy ten men in one hour.

So, who really has the power?

Sexology, A Slow Computer And Over 6,700 Hits

My dictionary defines “sexology” as the study of sexual life or relationships, especially in human beings.

Sexology is an important part of the editorial content of this magazine.  Sexology gives this publication it’s brashness, it’s youthfulness even though it’s editor/publisher is a senior citizen.

I can dream, can’t I?  And I have lots of hot memories.

Remember Dr. Ruth the popular sex adviser?  She was an old woman.  I can still hear her giving sex advice over the radio: “You take the penis and put it in your mouth.”  And this was mainstream radio, too.

The Old Soldier is not making this up.

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Well, I would like this post to be longer but my computer is downloading updates and it’s running slow as hell.

So, just let me say that so far today the Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette has over 6,700 hits for the month of February and we still have another day to go.

Now I’m going to get outside into this beautiful, mild, sunny weather for my walk.

Karaoke this Friday.  I have to be in shape.

PS  I meet a lot of women at karaoke who find the Old Soldier attractive.  Don’t count me out just yet.  Some of the women are over 40 and they’re looking, too.

Ladies, Answer This Question Before Doing Your First Adult Video

An Amateur Just Before Doing Her Porn Video

Okay, you’ve got your courage up and you are definitely going to do your first porn video.  How does a woman decide which site to contact?

Here’s my suggestion.  Watch the videos of the sites you are interested in.  Then ask yourself this question: do you get the feeling that the women are belittled for having sex on camera or are they celebrated for having sex on camera?

Then make your choice.

Oh, in the video never give your real name or where you work.  You can say the kind of work that you do but not the company you do it for.  If you are a student don’t give the college that you are attending.  And it is best never to be specific about where you live even if you are shooting your video in your hometown.  Tell the viewing audience that you live in a different city in a different state.

Now pay attention here.  The person or people shooting the video will need to see ID to make sure that you are 18 or whatever age you have to be in the state that you are shooting your video in to prove that you are old enough to be in a porn video.  Your ID will have your real information on it, age, name and address.  The person, or the people, shooting the video needs this information in order to pay you.  But don’t give your real information to the audience who will see your video.

If you do these basic things the chances of anyone in your real life finding your video are pretty slim because there are billions of porn videos on the internet and millions are added every month.  The only way the people in your real life will know that you were in a porn video is if you tell them.

Of course, even with the odds in your favor something like 10 million to one, every once in a while a woman is outted. 

The Old Soldier will never lie to you.

PS Make sure the site actually pays you.  Do your homework.  There are sites out there that are scams.  You suck and fuck and don’t get paid a penny. 

Do your research.

And one more thing.  Be sure to tell someone you trust the address of where you will be and what you will be doing just to be safe.

Then enjoy yourself.

Many Women Are Liberated By Their Porn Experience

This is another report on amateur women doing porn.  Let’s start off with a basic fact that is part of the public record: the porn industry takes in more money than the movie and music industry combined.

Here’s another basic fact that is part of the public record: there are more porn sites on the internet than any other kind of site.

This Amateur Did 10 Men In One Hour. Afterwards She Said She Had 5 Orgasms.

Now there are many reasons why young women (and not so young women) want to do porn: the money, they think its hot or they just want to have a life experience doing something wild.

But this is what the Old Soldier has deduced so far as one of the most compelling and maybe even a subconscious reason why so many women want to do porn: they will not feel held back sexually by generations of social restrictions that smother a woman in rules that tell her how to behave during sex and who and how many she should have sex with.

And what happens, especially if the woman volunteers to do a gang bang, is that often to her surprise her sexual flood gates (mental, emotional and bodily) open up and she finds herself in a sexual frenzy that allows her to reach a sustained level of orgasmic pleasure that is impossible for her to find in her real life.

When sex is this intense it’s like a drug to her.  Time stands still.  She literally can’t swallow enough cum and her vagina can’t get enough male erections.  Her clitoris is in a perpetual state of excitement.  There is just the overpowering sensation of her body building to orgasm, having the orgasm and then the build up to another orgasm.  This pattern during a gang bang last the entire video.

The trick for the amateur woman is to stay an amateur.  Or let me put it another way.  Every groove eventually becomes a rut.

How many porn videos can a woman do before she is no longer an amateur?  Three?  Four?  Five?

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Now It’s Really Easy To Follow The PFF Gazette

This morning the Old Soldier had an epiphany, a realization, an aha moment.  In previous posts I’ve encouraged readers to subscribe to the Pittsburgh Flash Fiction Gazette by pointing out that there’s a Subscription tab at the top of the page.  A reader would click on the tab and then have to do one or two other things to subscribe.

But this morning I remembered that there is a far easier way to get every issue of the this magazine.

In the bottom right of the page is a Follow button (I can’t see it as long as I’m logged-in).  Dah, silly me.  Just click on that button to get every issue of the most dynamic flash fiction magazine on the internet.

And why would you want to do that?

For the articles, for the commentaries, for the fiction and for the celebration of women, their sexuality and their nude bodies.

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